Sisterhood Journal
Notes on self-love.
Essays, guides, and honest conversations about your body — sex, self, and shaving, written plainly.
Sex & Pleasure
June 20, 2026 · The Sisterhood
How to Use Lube: Types, Safety, and When It Helps
Lube reduces friction, increases comfort, and is safe and beneficial for most people — not just those experiencing dryness. Here's what the different types actually do, and how to choose.
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Sex & Pleasure · June 20, 2026
How to Orgasm with a Vibrator: Technique, Placement, and What Actually Helps
Many people don't orgasm with a vibrator in early sessions — and that's physiologically normal. The most common barriers are the wrong placement, settings too high from the start, and performance pressure. Here's what the evidence says about what actually helps.
Sex & Pleasure · June 19, 2026
Best Vibrator for Beginners: What to Actually Look For
You do not need the most powerful or most feature-rich device for a first vibrator. Body-safe silicone, a range of settings starting at low intensity, and a manageable size are all that actually matter — here is how to think about each.
Sex & Pleasure · June 19, 2026
Vulva Anatomy: What It Is, What the Parts Are, and Why It Matters
The vulva and the vagina are not the same thing. The vulva is all the external genital structures you can see; the vagina is the internal canal. Here is what each part is, why variation is completely normal, and the basic care that keeps vulvar tissue healthy.
Sex & Pleasure · June 19, 2026
G-Spot Orgasm: What It Is, How to Have One, and What to Do If You Haven't
Stimulating the anterior vaginal wall — what many people call the G-spot — produces an intense, full-body sensation for many people with vulvas. Here's what the evidence says about how to get there, and why it doesn't happen the same way for everyone.
Sex & Pleasure · June 18, 2026
Vaginal Dryness: Causes, Relief, and What It Means for Intimate Skin Care
Vaginal dryness is common and treatable, and has nothing to do with arousal or desire. Understanding the cause — hormonal, medication-related, or situational — points directly to the right relief. Here is what the NHS and NICE say, plus the shaving-comfort connection most guides miss.
Sex & Pleasure · June 18, 2026
The G-Spot: What It Is, How to Find It, and What the Science Says
The G-spot is an area of heightened sensitivity on the anterior wall of the vagina. Whether it is a distinct structure or part of the clitoral internal network is still debated — but stimulating it is a real experience for many people, and the technique is straightforward.
Sex & Pleasure · June 15, 2026
Types of Vibrators: What Each One Does and How to Choose
Most vibrators fall into four main categories based on where and how they stimulate. Understanding the difference — clitoral, internal, dual, or discreet-by-design — is the fastest way to choose one that actually works for you.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
Clitoral Stimulation: What It Is, How It Works, and Technique Guide
Most people with vulvas reach orgasm primarily through clitoral stimulation — yet the clitoris is one of the least understood parts of the body. Here's the anatomy, the physiology, and a practical guide.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
How to Increase Libido in Women: What the Evidence Actually Says
A low sex drive is one of the most common sexual health concerns for women — and one of the most underreported. Understanding what actually affects libido makes it far easier to address.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
How to Have an Orgasm: What the Evidence Says About Female Pleasure
Orgasm is a physiological reflex — not a performance. Understanding what actually happens during orgasm, and why clitoral stimulation is central for most people, takes the guesswork out of getting there.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
Erogenous Zones for Women: A Body Map and Guide
A practical guide to erogenous zones — what they are, where they are, why sensitivity varies between individuals, and how to explore them with confidence.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
Health Benefits of Masturbation: What the Research Actually Says
Masturbation is consistently described as a normal and healthy sexual behaviour by major sexual health organisations. Research points to mood, sleep, and self-knowledge as areas of benefit — without the risks sometimes assumed.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
Masturbating with a Vibrator: The 101 Guide to Solo Pleasure
Solo pleasure with a vibrator is a skill that develops, not an event you either get right or don't. Here's the practical 101 — settings, technique, mindset, and five reasons most people find it worth building into a regular practice.
Sex & Pleasure · June 13, 2026
How to Use a Vibrator for the First Time: A Practical, No-Pressure Guide
Using a vibrator for the first time doesn't have to be a production. Here's what to expect, how to start low and slow, and why the first time is usually just the beginning.
Sex & Pleasure · June 11, 2026
Pelvic Floor Health: What It Is, Why It Matters, and How to Strengthen It
The pelvic floor supports bladder control, bowel function, and sexual sensation. Most people learn about it after something goes wrong. Here's the preventive case — and the actual exercise protocol.
Sex & Pleasure · June 11, 2026
Nipple Stimulation Guide: How to Have a Nipplegasm
A nipplegasm is real — some people can reach climax through nipple stimulation alone. Here's the step-by-step guide, what vibration actually adds, and the honest answer to 'can everyone have one?'
Sex & Pleasure · June 11, 2026
Is Lelo Worth It? Honest Alternatives Under $50
Lelo's quality is real. So is the $79–$259 price tag, the no-subscription model, and the growing mid-market field. Here's what you actually get — and what the honest under-$50 alternatives look like.
Sex & Pleasure · June 11, 2026
Discreet Vibrators: What They Are, How They Work, and the 2-in-1 That Changed the Category
A discreet vibrator is designed to be unrecognizable as a sex toy — through form, sound, or packaging. The Freya vibrating razor takes a structurally different approach: it IS a premium razor that also vibrates.
Sex & Pleasure · June 11, 2026
How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex Toys (Without It Being Weird)
Starting the conversation is almost always harder than the conversation itself. Here's how to bring it up, frame it as mutual, and handle any response with grace.
Sex & Pleasure · May 16, 2026
The Discreet Vibrator That Doesn't Need a Disguise
Most discreet vibrators hide by being small and muted. The freya. Vee takes a different approach: it's a real premium razor that also contains a 6-setting vibrator. No disguise needed — it IS the everyday object.