Sisterhood Journal
Notes on self-love.
Essays, guides, and honest conversations about your body, sex, self, and shaving, written plainly.
Sex & Pleasure
June 20, 2026 · The Sisterhood
How to Orgasm with a Vibrator: Technique, Placement, and What Actually Helps
Many people don't orgasm with a vibrator in early sessions, and that's physiologically normal. The most common barriers are the wrong placement, settings too high from the start, and performance pressure. Here's what the evidence says about what actually helps.
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Sex & Pleasure · June 19, 2026
Best Vibrator for Beginners: What to Actually Look For
You do not need the most powerful or most feature-rich device for a first vibrator. Body-safe silicone, a range of settings starting at low intensity, and a manageable size are all that actually matter, here is how to think about each.
Sex & Pleasure · June 19, 2026
G-Spot Orgasm: What It Is, How to Have One, and What to Do If You Haven't
Stimulating the anterior vaginal wall, what many people call the G-spot, produces an intense, full-body sensation for many people with vulvas. Here's what the evidence says about how to get there, and why it doesn't happen the same way for everyone.
Sex & Pleasure · June 18, 2026
Vaginal Dryness: Causes, Relief, and What It Means for Intimate Skin Care
Vaginal dryness is common and treatable, and has nothing to do with arousal or desire. Understanding the cause, hormonal, medication-related, or situational, points directly to the right relief. Here is what the NHS and NICE say, plus the shaving-comfort connection most guides miss.
Sex & Pleasure · June 18, 2026
The G-Spot: What It Is, How to Find It, and What the Science Says
The G-spot is an area of heightened sensitivity on the anterior wall of the vagina. Whether it is a distinct structure or part of the clitoral internal network is still debated, but stimulating it is a real experience for many people, and the technique is straightforward.
Sex & Pleasure · June 15, 2026
Types of Vibrators: What Each One Does and How to Choose
Most vibrators fall into four main categories based on where and how they stimulate. Understanding the difference, clitoral, internal, dual, or discreet-by-design, is the fastest way to choose one that actually works for you.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
How to Increase Libido in Women: What the Evidence Actually Says
A low sex drive is one of the most common sexual health concerns for women, and one of the most underreported. Understanding what actually affects libido makes it far easier to address.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
How to Have an Orgasm: What the Evidence Says About Female Pleasure
Orgasm is a physiological reflex, not a performance. Understanding what actually happens during orgasm, and why clitoral stimulation is central for most people, takes the guesswork out of getting there.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
Health Benefits of Masturbation: What the Research Actually Says
Masturbation is consistently described as a normal and healthy sexual behaviour by major sexual health organisations. Research points to mood, sleep, and self-knowledge as areas of benefit, without the risks sometimes assumed.
Sex & Pleasure · June 14, 2026
Masturbating with a Vibrator: The 101 Guide to Solo Pleasure
Solo pleasure with a vibrator is a skill that develops, not an event you either get right or don't. Here's the practical 101, settings, technique, mindset, and five reasons most people find it worth building into a regular practice.
Self-Care · June 13, 2026
How to Clean a Vibrator: The Safe Method, Step by Step
Cleaning a vibrator after every use prevents bacterial buildup and extends the life of the device. The method is simple, warm water, mild soap, air dry, but a few common mistakes can damage the material or leave residue behind.